We are heading into what may be the strangest Fall planning season in our history. As we wrap up 2020 (a year NOBODY could have planned for), we now face the arduous task of planning for 2021 with so many unknowns lying ahead.
In the coming months, you will hear from other Agents, industry leaders, and outside โbusiness gurus.โ Many people get excited about a lot of ideas. But unfortunately, all these ideas can push off their to-do lists, if not completely disregarding them as being unfeasible or unrealistic.
Research by psychologists Arie Kruglanski, Tory Higgins, and their colleagues suggests that we have two complementary motivational systems: the โ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด” system and the โ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ดโ system โ and weโre generally only capable of using one at a time.
๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฐ๐๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ๐บ, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ด๐ต๐ ๐๐ฝ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. Thinking alone will not get you there.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.
Itโs what you DO that will ultimately define who you are and what you accomplish in life, not what you THINK ABOUT doing. Thomas Jefferson once said, โ๐๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ? ๐๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ข๐ด๐ฌ. ๐๐ค๐ต! ๐๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ.โ
My challenge for you is this. ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ฅ. DO what you think about doing. ๐๐ข ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ด๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ผ. Stop talking about what needs to be done.
Being a doer instead of just a thinker requires a great deal of discipline and commitment.
Doing involves risk, but itโs the only way to make progress. If you are not willing to leave your comfort zone, look silly, sound choppy, and flat-out fall on your face, then youโll never get past the โthinkingโ stage.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ: ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฒ๐. As we enter this Fall planning season and you are serious about getting something done, identify your WHY behind the importance of it, otherwise, your excuses will constantly convince you why it canโt be done.
Actions you take beat life-changing intentions. You can never get real progress if you donโt take action.
Our industry is loaded with โself-help junkies.โ Agency owners who cannot wait to read the next book, listen to the next podcast, attend the next seminar. They have notebooks loaded with tremendous thoughts, systems, processes, tips, tricks, and mindsets that collect dust and take up space on their shelves. All of the self-help content in the world canโt save you if you never take action.
Thinking about doing is more exhausting than doing. All of those dusty notebooks on your shelf and written out plans and ideas without taking action or implementation are actually making you anxious and stressed. They serve as a constant reminder that you have something to start, but never did. Continuous improvement and failing forward will always trump a list of perfect ideas.
The reality is, most things on your to-do list wonโt be done. Take them off your list or maintain the healthy habit of doing something about them every day. Being overwhelmed with many things to do and no sense of priority (no deadlines) usually means nothing will get done.
So, as we enter this โFall Planningโ season I encourage you to embrace these words: ๐๐๐ฆ๐ฆ ๐๐ฆ ๐ ๐ข๐ฅ๐.
The reality is, you already know WHAT you need to do and for the most part, you know HOW to do it. Iโm not saying there isnโt a time and place for thinking and planning, but I am saying that too many Agents spend a disproportionate amount of time in that place. In fact, Iโd label it as an unhealthy amount of time.
๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐ง๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐น๐น.
Not only is doing easier than thinking about doing, but doing also gives you the ability to check something off your to-do list, giving you a sense of progress, engagement, fulfillment, and accomplishment.
Stick to the basics, execute at a high level on what you already know, and build that crucial momentum heading into 2021.